You can be remarkable

It all about commitment. If you can care more and do something out of the regular you can get close to being remarkable. You are not the one making the remark it people so you do things for people who care to make remarks not you. People are the one that would make the remark.

You must always make and do things that is above average because average is common  and it not worth making any remarks. Average things don't get noticed, we have seen  them several times.

You always want to do something that is not just noticed but also remarkable that is worthy of making a remark. Being remarkable is found at the edges that is more than the regular things we are used to .

You don't have to please everybody, you can't even please everybody just make something insanely great for people that cares. Always remember what is  remarkable today becomes boring tomorrow so always be ready to reinvent yourself always.

The power of appreciation and acknowledgement

The deepest craving of human beings is to be appreciated. We appreciate kind words and thoughtful gesture.

When last did you say thank you? You need to evaluate yourself on how often you say thank you on small gesture. You need to make acknowledgement part of your habits and culture . You need to be an acknowledgement professional.

Always make appreciation your lifestyle. There are hundreds of things to appreciate people on. The danger is to belittle things, so don't belittle, always look for ways to appreciate little gestures. Always be on the lookout for things to appreciate.

If you acknowledge it give people sense of relevance and it shows how important they are. Acknowledgement shows that their contribution  is valued. If you want to improve your results make sure you make it a core part of your life.

You must measure yourself daily on how often you acknowledge. Acknowledge, appreciate more and succeed. You can't overdo it period.

The key to small talks

Risk taking is the first step towards getting better at small talk. When you see a stranger whether at a networking event or any other places  try to take the risk and start a conversation with them. You just need to be who you are and allow others to be who they are.

There is no topic you can't talk about just be yourself. If the other party is interested in starting a conversation  then you are good to go if not then walk away.

Always come into a conversation with the desire to learn something don't try to educate anybody or try to show you know too much, it would kill the conversation if you come in to lecture they won't listen they might pretend to.  It better not to try to change anybody behaviour but to come in with an open mind to learn something new. You don't have to give advice that is not requested.

The best way to start small talk is to ask simple questions like what, when, who, where and how.  You ask people questions on what they know the answer to and the conversation keep going just try to stay on topic.

At the end of every small talk ask yourself who do the major talking if you are the one ask why? Always keep in dialogue because that what makes the talk safe. It always important to take the risk because small talk is good for your health.

2 simple steps to add humour to your Presentation

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The brain hate boring things! One of the best way to get attention is to get your audience attention through humour. 

Humour can be very great when it come at a suprise to the audience. The best way to suprise the audience is to know the audience so that you can use the right material for the audience.

Humour is a science so it learnable and teachable when you follow timeless approach. The simple timeless approach are these.

# 1 Use funny Images : you can look up funny images to beautify your presentation online. Search for images and bring it as a suprise to your target audience.

# 2 Violate social norm: you can simply violate any of the well known norms by underestimating or overestimating it . If the violation came as a suprise it will wow the audience and make them laugh.